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Feb 14, 2018

oday’s episode is a Valentine’s Day special all about love — self-love, love in a relationship, and expanding what your ideas about love may be. We’ve got an incredible guest today, Alexandra Roxo, who will rock your world. We go there this episode — so, you probably don’t want your kids listening in to this one.

For the past 15 years of her life, Alexandra has primarily worked as an artist and has always had an intense fascination with all things spiritual and sexual. She’s spent time as a filmmaker, a writer, a photographer — but now, primarily works as a healer and mentor. Alexandra’s goal is to help other people step into their sexuality and to work through healing, trauma, transformation, embodiment, and empowerment.

As you’re listening to this episode, we urge you to keep an open mind and heart and try to experience it without judgment. We all have different experiences with our sexuality and in this episode, Alexandra gives us hers. Whether you’re single or in a relationship this is a great episode for you!


Topics Discussed:

[:39] About our bonus episode and guest this week.

[2:06] About our upcoming courses and workshops.

[3:14] Listener shout-outs!

[6:40] Alexandra gives us some background about herself and her journey.

[13:54] Becoming empowered through sexuality and turning sex into a healing, bonding experience.

[17:11] Alexandra’s experience growing up and learning to tap into her sexuality.

[27:22] Alexandra’s journey with exploring her sexuality.

[34:15] How Alexandra helps a client reduce their shame with sexuality, open up, and own their sexuality.

[42:16] Alexandra’s advice when it comes to the appropriate timing for when clients should open up sexually to their partners.

[47:50] Alexandra’s thoughts on being single and her tips to those that are this Valentine’s day.

[58:58] Alexandra’s tips to those in a relationship this Valentine’s day.

[1:01:42] The best advice Alexandra’s ever received.

[1:02:22] What has been Alexandra’s proudest moment?

[1:03:26] What has been Alexandra’s hardest moment?

[1:05:23] Alexandra’s self-care rituals.

[1:07:55] What gets Alexandra IGNTD?


Relationship Tip of the Week

Alexandra’s tip: Get out your journal and pen this Valentine’s day! Write out the things that turn you on, the things you find sexy or erotic, the things you want to try, and the things that make you feel the most connected. Spend time doing field research and really proving yourself right or wrong. Ask yourself, ‘Is this really who I am? Or is this social conditioning?’ And enjoy the hell out of the journey!


Where to Find Our Guest — Alexandra Roxo

Website: and Upcoming Workshops


Social Links: Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook.


Mentioned in this Episode:

IGNTD Couples Workshop on February 17th, 2018

HIIT IT with Sophie Jaffe + DJ Adi Jaffe on February 18th, 2018

IGNTD Recovery course

The Pleasure Chest

The Complete Vampire Chronicles, by Anne Rice


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